When people built the Tower of Babel (Genesis 11), they all spoke the same language. But they also were puffed up with pride. Here’s an excerpt from Group’s FaithWeaver  that you can use to help family members think about what’s behind their words:

Together, build a tower out of LEGO toys, blocks, boxes, or throw pillows. Then brainstorm statements people make that show they’re thinking about themselves instead of about how great God is. For example, someone might say, “I’m the best runner in class.” Think of things you’ve actually heard or said yourself. Write the statements on self-stick notes and attach them to your tower.

Say, “Our tower is full of statements people make when they’re not thinking about God.” Ask, “Do you notice anything these statements have in common?” (They’re all about things people do; they all begin with the word I.)

Say, “When we’re focused on ourselves, we’re not focused on God. Now let’s think of ways to turn each of these ‘I’ statements into ‘God’ statements. For example, ‘I’m the best runner in class’ can become ‘God gave me good running skills.’”

Replace the “I”-focused notes with new “God”-focused notes. Close by saying kind words about each other. Then have fun by knocking over your tower together.