With the explosion of technology now available, it seems like children are always plugged in, zoned out, or wired for sound. They spend less time outside, have shorter attention spans, and are exposed to online dangers such as pornography. On the positive side, technology has expanded children’s knowledge and opportunities. They learn teamwork, problem-solving, and communication skills. Technology has also boosted activism among today’s young people.
Although children may seem like “experts” when it comes to technology and new media, parents are still responsible for supervising what their kids are exposed to—and for how long. Two keys are moderation and interaction. These tips can help you limit and monitor what your kids see and hear:
Strategically set up your equipment and schedules. Keep televisions out of children’s bedrooms, and place the computer in an accessible family area. Make media time contingent on the completion of chores and homework. Plan alternate activities, including physical ones.
Establish digital-free zones. Agree on days and times (such as dinner, family night, Sundays, etc.) when no one—including adults—is allowed to check e-mail or use any form of media.
Watch and listen to TV shows, movies, and music together. Talk about the issues that come up. Tie them into faith and provide a biblical worldview for children to consider as they use technology.
What’s Up in Our Wired World?
- The average young American spends nearly every waking minute in front of an electronic device. Kids ages 8 to 18 spend more than 7.5 hours a day using computers or smart phones or watching TV. And because they multitask, they pack almost 11 hours of media content into that time. ~(Kaiser Family Foundation)
- 87% of parents play video games with their kids at least occasionally. ~(Yahoo! Shine)
- 20% of young people admit they’ve engaged in “sexting”— emailing or receiving nude photos or videos. ~(Associated Press-MTV)









