The Bible provides lots of insight about our words. For example, Proverbs 12:18 says, “Some people make cutting remarks, but the words of the wise bring healing.” And James 3:8 says, “No one can tame the tongue.” God repeatedly tells us to guard our mouths, knowing the damage they can do.
This month’s issue of “The Parent Link” looks into some ways to harness your family’s speech and make it pleasant and uplifting. Here are some things to remember as you work toward that goal:

• Your example speaks volumes. Children are sponges who absorb everything they hear. If you want them to use acceptable language, monitor your own words and model appropriate talk.
• Feelings can be tough to express. When kids vent their anger or frustration through bad language, acknowledge their emotions but help them find better words to use. By overreacting, you could trigger even more inappropriate talk.
• Words can offer healing and forgiveness. Teach children how words can hurt other people. When siblings and playmates fight or scream at one another, encourage verbal apologies and hugs to end disputes.